The Hot Girl and The Geek

In CategoryThe Hot Girl and The Geek

What My Kids Think

In CategoryNavel Gazing

Inspired by my buddy, MNKristy, I decided to see how well my kids know me.

We have a son Big, age 7; and a daughter Little, age 5.

Little was sort of uncooperative. But I got a few answers out of her.

My comments are in italics.

What is something I always say to you?
Big: you call me a turkey butt (true. I do always say that.)
Little: you call me Love Bug

What makes me happy?
Big: Us
Little: Us

What makes me upset?
Big: when I smack when I eat
Little: nothing (*snort* sure, kid. nice try.)

(seriously, I sort of thought they’d have so many answers, they wouldn’t be able to choose just one. I think they were nervous to answer. I have been telling them for the past 5 years to STOP YELLING, so that seems like an obvious answer. On the other hand, maybe it just illustrates how much attention they are paying when I say that 6482 times a day. Huh.)

How old am I? (I am 41. Damn it.)
Big: 41
Little: 30 (that’s my girl!)

How tall am I? (I am 5’2″)
Big: 7 feet
Little: 7 feet

(??? I don’t even know.)

What do I do when you guys are not here?
Big: Eat chocolate and watch teevee
Little: Eat chocolate

(boy, do they know me or what?)

What am I good at:
Big: typing on your computer
Little: hugging me (awwwwwww!)

What am I not good at?
Big: Thinking about new Lego technology
Little: Working

What is my job?
Big: Taking care of us
Little: I don’t know (I can see I will have give a speech on this subject)

How are we different?
Big: I’m a boy
Little: Our hair

How are we the same?
Big: We are in the same family
Little: I don’t know

What do you think I was like as a little girl?
Big: Tinier
Little: I don’t know

How do you know I love you?
Big: I just know
Little: I just know

All About Spelling – A Love Story

In CategoryHome Schooling

This is the season of curriculum planning for all of us homeschoolers.

Yep, here we are, dragging ourselves away from the Rainbow Resource catalog to plow through the last unfinished bits of products we bought last year, while getting excited about next year and the shiny new books that will soon arrive on our doorstep.

Will those shiny new books inspire shiny new attitudes in our children? Will they leap from their beds, get themselves dressed, start Mommy’s coffee and then sit quietly and read Homer (in the original Greek)? Will my son develop a newfound passion for double-digit subtraction and impeccable handwriting?

Will I be able to take a shower before noon? Sometimes?

Hope springs eternal.

Am I right or am I right, ladies?

ANYway, in honor of school planning, I am going to talk about my love for All About Spelling.

I LOVE All About Spelling. Did I say that already?

It will be my spelling program forever and ever, amen.

When I was looking for a spelling program, I was overwhelmed by all the choices out there. I read every single review of every single spelling program I could find, scrolling through pages and pages of opinions on sites like Home School Reviews, Cathy Duffy Reviews, and The Homeschool Lounge.

What took All About Spelling to the top of my list was that it consistently received very high marks from a huge variety of moms and students. Moms who homeschooled from the beginning liked it. Moms who pulled struggling readers/spellers out of public school liked it. Moms who had kids with dyslexia or other learning disabilities liked it. Moms who had kinesthetic learners liked it.

What is so different about it? It uses a multi-sensory approach to learning. We work orally, with flash cards, with the letter tiles, or with regular old pencil and paper. It has all these different avenues built into the program, and that makes it easy to connect with the visual, auditory, or kinesthetic learner. Even though I’m not entirely sure what kind of learners I’ve got, I know this is going to cover all the bases.

Here’s why I like it:

• It is organized. It progresses in a very logical manner. This appeals to me, because I am logical and like to do things in a Neat and Orderly Fashion. In fact, the phrase Neat and Orderly actually comes out of my mouth on a pretty regular basis.

I’ll bet if my husband made a top ten list of Ways in Which My Wife is Annoying, hearing “guys, let’s do this in a Neat and Orderly Fashion,” all the time would be on it. IF there were such a list.

But there isn’t.

Right, Sweetie?

Speaking of organization, I like that AAS teaches all the letter sounds of all the letters. Sure, after the first few Explode the Code workbooks Big knew the basic letter sounds and the short vowels, but wondering when to introduce the 4th sound of U or the 3rd sound of Y stressed me out a little. Should I teach all the sounds all at once or would that be overwhelming? On the other hand, saying, “Hey! You mastered all the sounds! Guess what? – There’s a bunch more!” seemed like a dirty trick. Besides, my son was advancing more quickly in reading than he was in our phonics workbooks (Workbooks! Gah!), and got frustrated when the words did not follow the phonics rules we had covered so far. Luckily, All About Spelling answered those questions for me and I could stop wasting all my valuable freak-out time on vowels.

With both Big and Little, I used Explode the Code Books A, B, C and 1-4 for beginning phonics, and then transitioned pretty much exclusively to AAS. All About Learning Press has also released a program called All About Reading, which coordinates with All About Spelling to create a comprehensive learn-to-read-and-spell extraveganza. I am still researching my plans for next year, and am looking into All About Reading Level 1 for Little.

• There is no student book. Only a teacher’s manual. This is a plus to me, because we can work through each chapter at our own pace, rather than trying to do a certain number pages per week or Mommy’s schedule is ruined and Mommy will have to stay up late, compulsively reprinting new schedules instead of watching The Real Housewives of New Jersey.

I allow approximately a week and a half per chapter. Some chapters we work on for 3 days, some take 6 or 7 days (10 to 20 minutes per day). Plus, no student book means no badgering these children to write, no listening to these children whine about writing, and we can work at the speed of their brains, not the speed of their hands. (Of course, if you have kids that aren’t so averse to writing, you can spell on paper.) No student book also means no consumables, which means I save everything for my daughter and avoid buying more stuff.

On the other hand, it is a very teacher-intense program. There is ZERO preparation, and all the lessons are scripted and very specific about how to get the point across; but the teacher must be there, working with the student. This is not a drawback for me since my kids are very young at 7 and 5, and I have to be there for most of the other subjects, too.

The letter tiles. Again, the letter tiles allow us to learn to spell without all that pesky writing. They both like to work with the tiles. I don’t know why exactly – something about them is fun. Pretty much everything is more fun than some dry old workbook that makes your hand hurt. Fun means I don’t have to cajole them into doing spelling. Fun means they ask to do spelling. Fun means spelling isn’t even really considered schoolwork. Fun makes it a win all around, is what I’m saying.

• It is a mastery program with lots of review. As we work through the chapters, not only do our spelling words focus on the phonics rule just learned, but there are also spelling words from previous chapters. There’s lots of built-in review to ensure that the rules really sink in.

I know talking about rules sounds dry and boring; but truly, it’s not. They are delivered in a way that makes the student feel empowered. Because they are not merely learning how to spell a long list of individual words, but learning how to decode ANY word they come across. We tend to think that spelling the English language is confusing, but in reality, 85% of our words are spelled phonetically or with specific spelling rules. There are not as many “sight words” as we’ve been led to believe.

All About Spelling focuses on both phonics and rules, and does so in such an organized way that I no longer worry about sight words or gaps. Rather than having kids memorize lists of words, AAS teaches the how and why of spelling. I feel confident that by the time we have completed the entire program, my kids will be able to read and spell almost any word they are confronted with. This is the absolute best part of the program, in my opinion.

• Other Awesome Features. AAS has their own set of readers that correlate with the spelling lessons. They also have a forum where you can talk to other users and ask questions. I think it’s a great resource and have used it a couple of times. Marie Rippel herself (the author of the program) has responded to my questions and emails with amazing promptness. All About Learning Press is family-owned and I like supporting small business, so that’s a bonus to me. Also, there are no grade designations. We started from the beginning, but if you have older kids, it’s nice that AAS does not label each step as a grade, but rather as a level. It is arranged by spelling concepts, so it’s only logical to start at the beginning – older kids can do this without feeling like they are doing baby work.

I really can’t think of any cons to this program, except that some people think it’s a little on the expensive side. I don’t, because readin, ritin, and rithmatic are huge priorities to me and I don’t mind spending money on them; and also because there are no consumables which reduces the cost dramatically, depending on how many kids you want to use it with.

I’m also happy to try to answer any questions you might have about how we use the program, so feel free to email me if you need more information.

You may have noticed that I have a link in my sidebar to All About Spelling. When I placed my order last year, I raved so much about the program, the owner (that’s right – the owner took my order) asked if I was an affiliate. After much thought I decided I believe in AAS so much, I would give it a shot. The links in this post are affiliate links, and if you are inclined to place an order, feel free to click through from here. I have received no compensation for this post, I really do love it.

Shut the Front Door

In CategoryAdventure

On Saturday, we spent ALL DAY in Yellowstone. (yes! more nature blathering! cowboy up, people, I’m enthusiastic!)

I have a sunburn.

And I managed to give a speech about Lodge Pole Pine to some total strangers, because apparently I will homeschool anyone within earshot.

And then we saw this –

Sapphire Pool

Which has to be one of the most beautiful things I’ve ever seen in nature.

And then we saw this –

Grizzly Bear.




About 80 yards away.

He was amazing. And gigantic. And glorious.

Best day ever.